When Jesus called the 12 apostles, He did not just call them to do missions — He became a friend to them. “I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is doing. I have called you friends” (John 15:15). Jesus is the model of true evangelization, showing us the importance of building genuine friendships with the people we serve.
He built genuine friendships with Lazarus, Martha, and Mary. He often visited their home to make His presence felt. He was a friend, not just a co-worker in mission. He healed Peter’s mother-in-law (Luke 4:38–39), showing that He cared not only about the apostles’ work but also about their personal challenges and well-being.
He called the 12 apostles by name (Matthew 10:1–12). He already knew them before they were called: “Before Philip called you, when you were under the fig tree, I saw you” (John 1:48). His calling went beyond the tasks He entrusted to them — it was rooted in love and friendship. His disciples remained in His presence because they felt genuinely loved. They knew Christ was not only their Lord but also their friend.
The youth ministry should follow this example. We look to Jesus as our model. Young people will keep coming back if they feel we are genuinely building friendships with them. It goes beyond the activities we do together — it’s about creating an authentic brotherhood and sisterhood that draws them closer to the community.
Let us build genuine friendships with one another. The ministry of Christ is about companionship and journeying together. While carrying out our mission, we should also nurture friendships that strengthen us as missionaries. Friendship reminds us that we are never alone — we have brothers and sisters sent by God to journey with us in life and in our mission.
